tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post97200849829838615..comments2023-05-24T08:38:39.116-04:00Comments on Shoes, booze and losers: a primer for the thirty-something spinster: What? - Grand FinaleMs Behaviourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03043831820035896075noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-4511076006207090402009-02-03T22:15:00.000-05:002009-02-03T22:15:00.000-05:00This guy is amazing - and not in a good way. List...This guy is amazing - and not in a good way. Listen, a relationship of any kind should make you feel good about yourself. And happy. Sounds like this guy has never been that for you, and has done nothing but sap your energy, your self esteem and your self respect. Move on, for real this time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-82666199530121853222009-02-02T18:30:00.000-05:002009-02-02T18:30:00.000-05:00it's time you ignored him. I know it's really har...it's time you ignored him. I know it's really hard to get rid of the jackasses in your life. I dated a guy who cheated on me and i broke up with him. Then i couldn't handle it i took him back...he treated me like shit. The day i kicked him out of my life for good i felt like a huge weight was lifted from me. You don't deserve such negativity in your life. You deserve so much better then that.Awkward, for youhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06984432242525849075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-50300974404345195042009-02-02T18:12:00.000-05:002009-02-02T18:12:00.000-05:00Asshat, I really don't know but I hope so. I reall...Asshat, I really don't know but I hope so. I really hope so. It's one good decision at a time right? I invited a girlfriend to go with me to my work event on Saturday so even if he does come groveling back, I have one less reason to see him. <BR/><BR/>GH, do I spy a word nerd? Try this one on. I was sitting around eating dinner with my girlfriends last Thursday and one of them (who arrived late) asked why we weren't drinking. I told her that it wasn't that we weren't drinking, it was "a question of inertia". Wow did she ever tease me for being a word nerd! :)Ms Behaviourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03043831820035896075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-70626177866490997362009-02-02T17:02:00.000-05:002009-02-02T17:02:00.000-05:00i'm as guilty as the next gal) this is no magic......i'm as guilty as the next gal) this is no magic...poof...he's fixed. he has shown you exactly who he is. your not powerful enough to change him (no one is). Would your friends treat you so poorly? If they did, would they be your friends? i am so not one for affirmations, BUT....I AM WORTHY...I AM WORTHY... I AM WORTHY...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-8187153220713713852009-02-02T14:58:00.000-05:002009-02-02T14:58:00.000-05:00Good for you. I know that you are a worthwhile per...Good for you. <BR/>I know that you are a worthwhile person and deserve to be treated as one.All people deserve to be treated with decency and respect.G in Berlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168975470282994167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-29870369962878009222009-02-02T14:42:00.000-05:002009-02-02T14:42:00.000-05:00Just wanted to let you know that I have been going...Just wanted to let you know that I have been going through the same thing as you have. I 'think' I'm a little older than you but our stories are the same. Except I married my nightmare... 17 years later.. I still feel the same way about mine and it doesn't get any better. I too have just started a blog. No one knows about it though. It's where I can go and let it all out. Just remember, it doesn't get any better.. I promise.. read my new blog and see for yourself... Good Luck...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-44732861741921816822009-02-02T07:59:00.000-05:002009-02-02T07:59:00.000-05:00You already decided to get rid of him. Now he's j...You already decided to get rid of him. Now he's just verifying your decision. Guys who have any respect don't usually take off their pants in car washes. But will you remain strong when he offers to make you breakfast and to spend the day solving crossword puzzles on the couch?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3575594973949982920.post-19706012381378080612009-02-02T00:44:00.000-05:002009-02-02T00:44:00.000-05:00Usually I talk way too much in comments, but this ...Usually I talk way too much in comments, but this one is simple: he's an ass. Move on.<BR/><BR/>And yes, you are good enough for C le V. Trust me.<BR/><BR/>And, as an incredibly minor side note: loved that you used "askance". :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com